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... lover or amour to talk of , the too frequent subject of their confidence , is betraying the secrets of their families ; or conjuring up fancied hardships to complain of against their parents or relations : this odious ca- bal , they ...
... lover or amour to talk of , the too frequent subject of their confidence , is betraying the secrets of their families ; or conjuring up fancied hardships to complain of against their parents or relations : this odious ca- bal , they ...
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... lover , May no such person be ever called a friend of your's ! but , if ever one whom , when innocent , you had loved , skould fall into so fatal an error , I can only say that , after proper remonstrances , you must im- mediately ...
... lover , May no such person be ever called a friend of your's ! but , if ever one whom , when innocent , you had loved , skould fall into so fatal an error , I can only say that , after proper remonstrances , you must im- mediately ...
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... lover , as into that of a female candi- date for her friendship , the same rules might direct you in the choice of both , for , marriage being the highest state of friendship , the qualities requisite in a friend are still more ...
... lover , as into that of a female candi- date for her friendship , the same rules might direct you in the choice of both , for , marriage being the highest state of friendship , the qualities requisite in a friend are still more ...
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... lover the least encouragement ; nor ought you to listen a moment to the man who would wish you to keep his addresses secret ; since he thereby shews himself conscious that they are not fit to be encouraged . But perhaps I have said ...
... lover the least encouragement ; nor ought you to listen a moment to the man who would wish you to keep his addresses secret ; since he thereby shews himself conscious that they are not fit to be encouraged . But perhaps I have said ...
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... one ra tional creature with another , without any view to the possibility of a lover or admirer , where nothing of that kind is professed ; where it is , I hope you 1 will ever be equally a stranger to coquetry and 92 ON POLITENESS.
... one ra tional creature with another , without any view to the possibility of a lover or admirer , where nothing of that kind is professed ; where it is , I hope you 1 will ever be equally a stranger to coquetry and 92 ON POLITENESS.
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Page 163 - I know nothing that renders a woman more despicable than her thinking it essential to happiness to be married ! Besides the gross indelicacy of the sentiment, it is a false one, as thousands of women have experienced.
Page 22 - Whatsoever ye would that men should do unto you, even so do unto them ; for this is the law and the prophets.
Page 53 - Though thou drawest a sword at a friend, yet despair not, for there may be a returning to favour; if thou hast opened thy mouth against thy friend, fear not, for there may be a reconciliation ; except for upbraiding, or pride, or disclosing of secrets, or a treacherous wound ; for, for these things every friend will depart.
Page 54 - Whoso discovereth secrets, loseth his credit, and shall never find a friend to his mind. Love thy friend, and be faithful unto him; but if thou betrayest his secrets, follow no more after him: for as a man hath destroyed his enemy, so hast thou lost the love of thy friend; as one that letteth a bird go out of his hand, so hast thou let thy friend go, and...
Page 150 - I would have you to dance with spirit ; but never allow yourselves to be so far transported with mirth, as to forget the delicacy of your sex.— Many a girl, dancing in the gaiety and innocence of her heart, is thought to discover a spirit she little dreams of.
Page 73 - which has the promise of this life as well as of that which is to come.
Page 54 - ... not get him again. Follow after him no more, for he is too far off ; he is as a roe escaped out of the snare. As for a wound, it may be bound up, and after reviling there may be reconciliation ; but he that bewrayeth secrets, is without hope.
Page 94 - As to the learned languages, though I respect the abilities and application of those ladies who have attained them, and who make a modest and proper use of them, yet I would by no means advise you, or any other woman, who is not strongly impelled by a particular genius, to engage in such studies.
Page 90 - Young ladies, of nearly your own age, who visit there, fall of course to your share to entertain: but whilst you exert yourself to make their visit agreeable to them, you must not forget what is due to the elder part of the company, nor, by whispering and laughing apart, give them cause to suspect, what is too often true, that they themselves are the subjects of your mirth.
Page 163 - All this is owing to an exuberant activity of spirit, which, if it had found employment at home, would have rendered them respectable and useful members of society. I see other women, in the same situation, gentle, modest, blessed with sense, taste, delicacy, and every milder feminine virtue of the heart, but of weak spirits, bashful, and timid. I see such women sinking into obscurity and insignificance, and gradually losing every elegant accomplishment, for this evident reason, that they are not...