GET not your friends by bare compliments, but by giving them sensible tokens of your love. It is well worth while to learn how to win the heart of man the right way. Force is of no use to make or preserve a friend, who is an animal that is never caught and tamed but by kindness and pleasure. Excite them by your civilities, and show them that you desire nothing more than their satisfaction; oblige with all your soul that friend who has made you a present of his own. -Socrates. HE who gives pleasure, meets with it; kindness is the bond of friendship, and the book of love; he who sows not, reaps not. + FRIENDSHIP is the holiest of gifts, God can bestow nothing more sacred upon us! It enhances every joy, mitigates every pain. Everyone can have a friend Who himself knows how to be a friend. -Teidge. IN this respect friendship is superior to relationship, because from relationship benevolence can be withdrawn, and from friendship it cannot; for with the withdrawal of benevolence the very name of friendship is done away, while that of relationship remains. -Cicero. I WANT a warm and faithful friend, x Who ne'er to flatter will descend, A friend to chide me when I'm wrong, And that my friendship prove as strong -Adams. FRIENDSHIP'S true laws are by this rule expressed, Welcome the coming, speed the parting guest. -Pope. HUMAN spirits are only to be drawn together and held together by the living bond of having found something in which they really do agree. -Greenwell. HE has the substance of all bliss Add but eternity, you'll make it heaven. + HE who wrongs his friend Wrongs himself more and ever bears about A silent court of justice in his breast. -Tennyson. HEARTS only thrive on varied good, Of friendly hearts his daily food, Is the best friend that we can boast. -Holland. I EXHORT you to lay the foundations of virtue, without which friendship cannot exist, in such a manner that, with this one exception, you may consider that nothing in the world is more excellent than friendship. -Cicero. IT is a beautiful thing to feel that our X friends are God's gifts to us. Thinking of it has made me understand why we love and are loved, sometimes when we cannot explain what causes the feeling. Feeling so makes friendship such a sacred, holy thing! -Porter. IF my brother, or kinsman, will be my friend, I ought to prefer him before a stranger; or I show little duty or nature to my parents. And as we ought to prefer our kindred in point of affection, so, too, in point of charity, if equally needing and deserving. -Penn. IT is equally impossible to forget our friends, and to make them answer to our ideal. When they say farewell, then indeed we begin to keep them company. How often we find ourselves turning our backs on our actual friends that we may go out and meet their ideal cousins! -Thoreau. I MUST feel pride in my friend's accomplishments as if they were minewild, delicate, throbbing property in his virtues. I feel as warmly when he is praised as the lover when he hears applause of his engaged maiden. -Emerson. IN very many cases of friendship, or what passes for it, the old axiom is reversed, and like clings to unlike more than to like. -Dickens. |