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my father not being qualified to superintend the education of a girl, committed me to the care of his sister, who instructed me with the authority, and not to deny her what she may justly claim, with the affection of a parent. She had not very
elevated sentiments or extensive views, but her principles were good, and her intentions
and though some may practise more virtues, scarce any commit fewer faults.
Under this good lady I learned all the common rules of decent behaviour, and standing maxims of domestick prudence ; and might have grown up by degrees to a country gentlewoman, without any thoughts of ranging beyond the neighbourhood, had not Flavia come down, last summer, to visit her relations in the next village. I was taken, of course, to compliment the stranger; and was, at the first sight, surprised at the unconcern with which she saw herself gazed at by company whom she had never known before ; at the carelessness with which she received compliments, and the readiness with which she returned them. I found she had something which I perceived myself to want, and could not but wish to be like her, at once easy and officious, attentive and unembarrassed. I went home, and for four days could think and talk of nothing but Miss Flavia ; though my aunt told me, that she was a forward flirt, and thought herself wise before her time.
In a little time she repaid my visit, and raised in my heart a new confusion of love and admiration. I soon saw her again, and still found new charms in her air, conversation, and behaviour. You who have perhaps seen the world, may have observed,
that formality soon ceases between young persoas. I know not how others are affected on such occasions, but I found myself irresistibly allur. ed to friendship and intimacy, by the familiar complaisance and airy gaiety of Flavia ; so that in a few weeks I became her favourite, and all the time was passed with me, that she could gain from ceremony
and visit. As she came often to me, she necessarily spent some hours with my aunt, to whom she paid great respect, by low courtesies, submissive compliance, and soft acquiescence ; but as I became gradually more accustomed to her manners, I discovered that her civility was general ; that there was a certain degree of deference shewn by her to circumstances and appearances ; that many went away flattered by her humility, whom she despised in her heart that the influence of far the greatest part of those with whom she conversed ceased with their presence; and that sometimes she did not remember the names of them whom, without any intentional insincerity or false commendation, her habitual civi. lity had sent away with very high thoughts of their own importance.
It was not long before I perceived, that my aunt's opinion was not of much weight in Flavia's deliberations, and that she was looked upon by her as a woman of narrow sentiments, without knowledge of books, or observations on mankind. I had hitherto considered my aunt, as entitled by her wisdom and experience to the highest reverence, and could not forbear to wonder that any one so much
younger should venture tn suspect her of er
ror or ignorance ; but my surprise was without uncasiness, and being now accustomed to think Flavia always in the right, I readily learned from her to trust my own reason, and to believe it possible, that they who had lived longer might be mistaken.
Flavia had read much, and used so often to converse on subjects of learning, that she put all the men in the country to flight, except the old parson, who declared himself much delighted with her company, because she gave him opportunities to recollect the studies of his younger years, and by some mention of ancient story had made him rub the dust off his Homer, which had lain unregard. ed in his closet. With Homer, and a thousand other names familiar to Flavia, I had no acquaintance, but began, by comparing her accomplishments with my own, to repine at my education, and wish that I had not been so long confined to the company of those from whom nothing but housewifery was to be learned. I then set myself to peruse such books as Flavia recommended, and heard her opinion of their beauties and defects. I saw new worlds hourly bursting upon my mind, and was enraptured at the prospect of diversifying life with endless entertainment.
The old lady finding that a large screen, which I had undertaken to adorn with turkey-work against winter, made very slow advances, and that I had added in two months but three leaves to a flowered
then in the frame, took the alarm, and with all the zeal of honest folly exclaimed against my new acquaintance, who had filled me with idle notions, and turned my head with books,
But she had now lost her authority, for I began to find innumerable mistakes in her opinions, and improprieties in her language ; and therefore thought myself no longer bound to pay much regard to one who knew little beyond her needle and her dairy, and who professed to think that nothing more is required of a woman than to see that the house is clean, and that the maids go to bed and rise at a certain hour.
She seemed however to look upon Flavia as seducing me, and to imagine, that when her influence was withdrawn, I should return to my allegiance ; she therefore contented herself with remote hints and gentle admonitions, intermixed with sage histories of the miscarriages of wit, and disappointments of pride. But since she has found, that though Flavia is departed, 1 still persist in my new scheme, she has at length lost her patience ; she snatches
book out of my hand, tears my paper if she finds me writing, burns Flavia's letters before my
face when she can seize them, and threatens to lock me up, and to complain to my father of my perverseness. If women, she says, would but know their duty and their intesest, they would be careful to acquaint themselves with family affairs, and many a penny might be saved ; for while the mistress of the house is scribbling and reading, servants are junketing, and linen is wearing out. She then takes me round the rooms, shews me the worked hangings and chairs of tentstitch, and asks whether all this was done with a pen and a book.
I cannot deny that I sometimes laugh and sometimes am sullen; but she has not delicacy enough to be much moved either with my mirth or my gloom,
if she did not think the interest of the family endangered by this change of my manners. She had for some years marked out young Mr. Surely, an heir in the neighbourhood, remarkable for his love of fighting cocks, as an advantageous match; and was extremely pleased with the civilities which he used to pay me, till under Flavia's tuition I learned to talk of subjects which he could not understand. This, she says, is the consequence of female study ; girls grow too wise to be advised, and too stubborn to be cominanded ; but she is resolved to see who shall govern, and will thwart my humour till she breaks my spirit.
These menaces, Mr. Rambler, sometimes make me quite angry; for I have been sixteen these ten weeks, and think myself exempted from the domi. nion of a governess, who has no pretensions to more sense or knowledge than myself. I am resolved, since I am as tall and as wise as other women, to be no longer treated like a girl. Miss Flavia has often told me, that ladies of my age go to assemblies and routes, without their mothers and their aunts; I shall therefore, from this time, leave asking advice, and refuse to give accounts. I wish you would state the time at which young ladies may judge for themselves, which I am sure you cannot but think ought to begin before sixteen ;
if you are inclined to delay it longer, 1 shall have very little regard to your opinion.
My aunt often tells me of the advantages of experience, and of the deference due to seniority; and both she, and all the antiquated part of the world, talk of the unreserved obedience which they paid to the commands of their parents, and VOL. II.