Thank God, ye toilers for your bread, in that, daily labouring, He hath suffered the bubbles of self-interest to float upon the stream of duty: For honesty, of every kind, approved by God and man, Of wealth and better weal is found the richest cornucopia. Aiding many, fearing none, a spectacle to angels, and to men : OF SOCIETY. BETTER is the mass of men, Suspicion, than thy fears Yea, let the moralist condemn, there be large extenuations of his verdict, than hateful. How many pleasant faces shed their light on every side! How many angels unawares have crossed thy casual way! How often, in thy journeyings, hast thou made thee instant friends, Found, to be loved a little while, and lost, to meet no more; Friends of happy reminiscence, although so transient in their converse, Liberal, cheerful, and sincere, a crowd of kindly traits. I have sped by land and sea, and mingled with much people, But never yet could find the spot unsunned by human kindness : Some more and some less,-but, truly, all can claim a little; And a man may travel through the world, and sew it thick with friend ships. There be indeed, to say it in all sorrow, bad apostate souls, Deserted of their ministering angels, and given up to liberty of sin,— Few verily are these among the mass, and cast in fouler moulds, Yet, or ever thou hast harshly judged, and linked their presence to disgust, Thou hast not thought upon the causes, ranged in consecutive necessity, Thus were they discouraged from all good, and pampered in their evil : Nevertheless for these, my counsel is, Avoid them if thou canst; For the finer edges of thy virtues will be dulled by attrition with their vice. And there is an enemy within thee; either to palliate their sin, Until the publican and the harlot stand nearer heaven than the Pharisee: Beware of their example,-and thine own; beware the hazards of the battle; But chiefly be thou ware of this, an unforgiving spirit. Many are the dangers and temptations compassing a bad man's presence: The upas hath a poisonous shade, and who would slumber there? Wherefore, avoid them if thou canst; only, under providence and duty, If thy lot be cast with Kedar, patiently and silently live to their rebuke. How beautiful thy feet, and full of grace thy coming, O better, kind companion, that art well for either world! 'There is an atmosphere of happiness floating round that man, Love is throned upon his heart, and light is found within his dwelling, There is an outer world, and there is an inner centre; And many varying rings concentric round the self: For, first, about a man,-after his communion with heaven,— Is found the helpmate even as himself, the wife of his vows and his affections: See then that ye love in faith, scorning petty jealousies, For Satan spoileth too much love, by souring it with doubts; See that intimacy die not to indifference, nor anxiety sink into moroseness, Next of those concentric circles, radiating widely in circumference, He is independent of the world, hanging on his friends more loosely: For the little faces round his hearth are friends enow for him, If he seek others, it is for the sake of these, and less for his own pleasure. As these pure budding intellects, and bright unsullied hearts ? What thoughts and hopes and holy prayers, can others cause like these? If ye count society for good,-how fair a field is here, To guide these souls to God, and multiply thyself for heaven! And this sweet social commerce with thy children, groweth as their growth, Unless thou fail of duty, or have weaned them by thine absence. They will not hide their very loves if thou hast won their trust; No secret shall be kept from thee; for if ill, thy wisdom may repair it ; Sure of a welcome, though others cast them out; of kindness, though men scorn them; And finding there the last to blame, the earliest to commend. Alas, and bitter is their loss, the parents and the children, Who, loving up and down the world, have missed each other's friendsnip. Or sprang of too much carefulness, that drank up all the streams: The growing child grew out of love, and drew the breath of fear; The youth ill-trained renounced his fears, and made a league with cun ning; And so those hardened men were foes, that should have been chief friends. Where was the cause, the mutual cause! O hunt it out to kill it : And what the cure, the simple cure ?-A mutual flash of love. Caution, care, and dry distrust, obscured each other's mind, Till both those gardens rich to yield, were rank with many weeds: For better friends can no man have, than those whom God hath given, And be ye wiser,—(I speak unto the fathers,)—gain those filial comrades, Cherish their reasonable converse, and look not with coldness on your children. For the friendship of a child is the brightest gem set upon the circlet of Society, A jewel worth a world of pains,—a jewel seldom seen. The third cycle on the waters, another of those rings upon the onyx, A further definite broad zone, holdeth kith and kin; A motley band of many tribes, and under various banners; The intimate and strangers, the known and loved, or only seen for loathing: Some, dear for their deserts, shall honour and have honour of relation ship, Some, despising duties, will add to it both burden and disgrace. A man's nearest kin are oftentimes far other than his dearest, Yet in the season of affliction those will haste to help him. For, note thou this, the providence of God hath bound up families together, To mutual aid and patient trial; yea, those ties are strong, Friends are ever dearer in thy wealth, but relations to be trusted in thy need, For these are God's appointed way, and those the choice of mar. |